Finding your community on Campus

College is an exciting time filled with possibilities! Starting college means new classes, new independence, and meeting new people. But while campuses can seem buzzing with activity, many students quietly experience loneliness in those early months. Here’s what every college student (and parent) should know about loneliness and the journey to finding your community on campus.

Loneliness in College Is Normal, Especially at First

If you’re feeling isolated or unsure of where you fit in, you’re not alone. In fact, loneliness is one of the most common emotional experiences during the first semester of college. Why?

  • Everything is new. New environment, new people, new routines. It’s a lot for anyone to adjust to all at once.
  • Relationships take time. Real friendships don’t form overnight. It takes time to find people who you truly connect with.
  • Social media adds pressure. It can feel like everyone else is effortlessly making friends, but remember that what you see online is rarely the full picture.

Loneliness doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong, it just means you’re human, and you’re adjusting to a major life change.

How to Combat Loneliness and Find Your People

The good news is that colleges are filled with opportunities to meet people, explore interests, and find community!

1. Start Small and Show Up

You don’t have to join five clubs or attend every campus event. Just start with one small step, like:

  • Introducing yourself to someone in class
  • Attending a residence hall event
  • Attending a club meeting that aligns with an interest
  • Studying in a shared space like a library or lounge

Even showing up regularly to the same coffee shop or study area can create familiarity and natural opportunities for connection.

2. Join Groups That Match Your Interests

Colleges often have clubs and organizations that span nearly every interest– academic, cultural, creative, athletic, and more. Whether it’s student government, a dance team, a coding club, or an intramural sport, these groups are designed to help students connect around shared passions.

Check out bulletin boards, explore your college’s website, or search social media to find groups and events on campus.

3. Don’t Be Afraid to Be the One Who Reaches Out

Everyone’s looking for connection, even if they’re not saying it out loud. If you’re waiting for others to make the first move, you may be waiting a long time.

  • Ask a classmate to grab coffee or study together
  • Start a group chat with peers in your dorm or class
  • Send a message to someone you met at orientation or an event

It can feel vulnerable at first, but most people will be glad you reached out because chances are, they’re feeling the same way.

4. Seek Support When You Need It

If feelings of loneliness persist, it’s okay to talk to someone. Many campuses offer mental health counseling, peer mentoring, and wellness services. Keep in touch with family and other friends who aren’t on campus. You can also find a professional, licensed therapist to talk to if you are struggling. Many mental health professionals offer virtual sessions, or you can find one with an office near your school.

Academic Support Can Be Helpful

Sometimes, students feel isolated because they’re struggling to connect in class or keep up with the academic pace. A tutor can become an important part of your community as someone who encourages you, helps you stay on track, and reminds you that you’re not alone in this journey.

We’re proud to offer personalized, one-on-one tutoring that goes beyond homework help. Our sessions create space for students to feel seen, supported, and empowered both inside and outside the classroom. Call or email us today to learn how our tutoring and coaching services can help you feel more confident in college.

Final Thoughts

Feeling lonely in college doesn’t mean you’re in the wrong place, it just means you’re adjusting to something big. Give yourself time, keep reaching out, and remember that community isn’t built in a day.

Transitioning from Middle School to High School

The move from middle school to high school is a major milestone for students that comes with new academic expectations, social dynamics, and responsibilities. At Hodis Learning and Music, we know how important this transition is, and we’re here to help students and families navigate it with confidence and clarity.

1. Understand the Changes Ahead

High school introduces a wider range of classes, more demanding coursework, and the beginning of GPA tracking for college admissions. This is all happening while students are exploring their identities and interests. It’s a lot to juggle, especially during the first year. Parents can help by talking openly about what’s new and normalizing the adjustment period.

2. Build Organizational and Study Habits Early

Academic success in high school depends on organization, time management, and independent study skills. Encourage your student to use a planner, calendar app, or homework tracker. Breaking large assignments into smaller steps and setting weekly goals can prevent last-minute stress.

At Hodis Learning & Music, our tutors help students develop custom strategies for managing their workload and studying more effectively, which are skills they’ll use throughout high school and beyond.

3. Balance Independence With Support

High school is a time when students begin taking more ownership of their learning. While they still need guidance, it’s important to encourage self-advocacy. Encourage them to reach out to teachers, manage their schedules, and solve problems on their own. These are crucial skills that students need to develop before going to college and into the professional world.

4. Encourage Healthy Routines

A healthy routine supports both academic and emotional resilience. Make sure your child is getting enough sleep, eating well, and moving their body. Taking breaks from screens is also important for student health. Extracurriculars, especially creative or team-based ones, can offer important outlets for stress relief and social bonding.

5. Get Extra Support When Needed

No one should have to navigate this transition alone, and it’s important to let your new high school student know they can always ask for help. Whether your child is struggling with a specific subject, feeling overwhelmed by the workload, or just needs a boost in confidence, tutoring can provide personalized support at just the right time.

Moving Forward With Confidence

The transition from middle to high school can feel like a big leap, but it’s also an exciting time! High school is a pivotal time and provides an opportunity for growth, discovery, and self-development.

Want to help your student start high school strong? Call Or email us today to learn more about our personalized tutoring programs and how we support students through every stage of their academic journey.

Strategizing for Fall

Reflecting on Last Year to Thrive This Year

The start of a new school year is a fresh opportunity to reset, plan, and strategize for success. But before diving into the excitement of new goals and opportunities, it’s essential to pause and reflect on the past school year. Taking time to evaluate what worked, what didn’t, and strategizing for the year ahead sets a strong foundation for the fall semester.

Why Reflect on the Previous School Year?

Reflection isn’t just about looking back, it’s also an opportunity to learn. Students and parents can benefit from reflection and evaluation, as they help:

  • Identify Strengths: Which subjects, activities, or study strategies brought the most success?
  • Spot Growth Areas: Where did you struggle? Was it with time management, specific subjects, or test preparation?
  • Celebrate Achievements: Acknowledging achievements, both big and small, can provide motivation for the year ahead.

How to Evaluate the Past Year

An intentional approach to reviewing the previous school year can help you create a game plan for the semester (and school year) ahead.

  1. List Highlights and Challenges: Write down the most significant moments and consider what led to those outcomes. These can be test scores, projects, or personal milestones that impacted school work.
  2. Assess Study Habits: Think about your organization, homework routines, and exam prep. What worked well? What caused stress or last-minute cramming?
  3. Reflect on Effort vs. Results: Sometimes, great effort doesn’t translate into expected results. You might need a new approach or extra help in that area.
  4. Consider Feedback: Look at teacher comments, report cards, or parent-teacher conference notes for insights into strengths and areas for growth.

Strategizing & Setting Smart Goals

Once you’ve reviewed the past, it’s time to look forward with purpose. Setting clear, realistic goals will keep you focused and motivated throughout the year.

  • Use the SMART Method: Goals should be Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Instead of “I’ll do better in math,” try “I’ll get an A in math by practicing problem sets for 20 minutes daily.”
  • Break Goals into Steps: Big goals become more manageable when broken into smaller milestones. For example, improving writing might involve weekly vocabulary exercises.
  • Plan for Challenges: Identify potential obstacles and think of strategies to overcome them. Struggling with time management? Consider using a planner or digital calendar.
  • Track Progress: Regular check-ins (monthly or quarterly) ensure you’re on the right track and give you time to adjust strategies if needed.

Tips for a Successful Start

  • Organize Early: Set up binders, planners, and study spaces before the school year begins.
  • Establish Routines: Consistent study times, balanced with rest and extracurriculars, set the tone for a productive year.
  • Seek Support: Whether it’s from teachers, tutors, or family members, don’t be afraid to ask for help when needed.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Recognizing progress can keep you motivated. Celebrate when you achieve a high test score or receive good feedback on an assignment.

Final Thoughts

Strategizing at the start of a new school year helps you set the tone for the year ahead and attack goals early, instead of waiting until things get overwhelming. The key is to stay flexible and celebrate both the learning and the accomplishments along the way.

 

One of the best things to do after you’ve evaluated the previous school year and set goals for the year ahead is to book a tutor. There are bound to be subjects or material that you could use some extra help with. Set yourself up for success with a tutor. Check out our academic tutoring subjects here, and call us at (626) 227-1149 to schedule a session. You can also submit a contact form on our website.

What to do when your child says "I Hate School"

Hearing your child say “I hate school” can be alarming, frustrating, and heartbreaking all at once. As a parent, you might wonder if it’s just a passing phase, a sign of deeper struggles, or something that requires immediate action.

The truth is, a child’s dislike of school can come from many sources– from academic challenges to social worries, motivation dips, or simply feeling disengaged in the classroom. The good news is that there are supportive steps you can take to help your child feel more confident, motivated, and even excited about learning again.

Understand the ‘Why’ Behind the Words

First, it’s important to stay calm and curious. Instead of dismissing the comment or reacting with worry, ask open-ended questions like:

  • What makes you feel that way?
  • Can you tell me what parts of school you don’t like?
  • Is there anything that would make school better for you?

Listen carefully for clues. Your child may be struggling with a particular subject, feeling overwhelmed by homework, or having trouble with friends or teachers. Sometimes, kids don’t even know exactly why they dislike school, they just feel disconnected.

Address Possible Learning Struggles

One common reason kids say they hate school is because they feel lost or behind in class. Learning difficulties can chip away at a child’s confidence and motivation. If you suspect this might be the case, talk to your child’s teachers. They can provide insight into how your child is performing academically and socially.

You may also want to look for signs like:

  • Frequent complaints about homework
  • Avoidance of reading or writing
  • Trouble concentrating or staying organized
  • Low grades despite lots of effort

If you notice these patterns, a little extra support can make a big difference. While it’s not always necessary to pursue formal testing right away, consider working with your child’s school or an experienced tutor to figure out next steps.

Focus on Motivation and Engagement

Sometimes the problem isn’t a learning struggle, but a lack of connection to what’s being taught. Many students thrive when they feel a subject is meaningful, interesting, or fun. Look for ways to tie learning to your child’s interests with books about favorite hobbies, math games, or real-world activities that make schoolwork feel relevant.

At home, celebrate small wins. Praise effort rather than perfection, and remind your child that mistakes are part of learning. Help them develop good study habits and a consistent routine so school feels more manageable.

When Tutoring Can Help

One of the best ways to reengage a reluctant student is through tutoring. A great tutor does more than help with homework. They build trust, offer encouragement, and teach in a way that sparks curiosity. At Hodis Learning & Music, our educators teach with empathy and enthusiasm. We tailor our approach to each student’s unique needs and interests, turning learning into an experience that feels rewarding and even fun!

Final Thoughts

When your child says “I hate school,” it’s a sign that they need your understanding and support. By listening with empathy, uncovering the root cause, and offering help in a positive, encouraging way, you can guide your child back to feeling capable, engaged, and ready to learn again.

If you’d like to learn more about how Hodis Learning & Music can help, we’re here for you. Our caring tutors believe every student deserves to enjoy learning — no matter their age, ability, or challenges. Call us at (626) 227-1149 or submit a contact form to learn more about tutoring today.

 

Keep Kids Learning All Summer with Hodis Learning & Music’s Enrichment Programs

Summer break doesn’t have to mean a break from learning! At Hodis Learning & Music, we offer a wide range of educational programs designed to keep students engaged, get ahead, and even explore new passions over the summer months. Below is a snapshot of our summer offerings, all designed with flexibility, fun, and student growth in mind.

SAT & ACT Tutoring

Is your student preparing for college applications? Summer is the ideal time to get ahead on SAT or ACT prep without the stress of a full academic schedule. Our expert tutors provide personalized strategies, targeted practice, and confidence-building support that help students raise their scores.

Academic Enrichment or Catch-Up

Whether your child struggled in a certain subject this past school year or is ready to accelerate their learning, we offer tailored tutoring in core subjects like math, English, science, and more. Our educators meet each student where they are and help them understand concepts, and gain confidence and momentum going into the fall.

Foreign Language Learning

Summer is the perfect time to start learning a language like Spanish or Mandarin! Our immersive, one-on-one language tutoring builds vocabulary, fluency, and cultural awareness. Students can learn to speak conversationally in the language of their choosing, and build a solid foundation for fluency.

Fun Educational Activities

Turn curiosity into discovery with our hands-on science and enrichment projects! Our fun educational sessions are perfect for students who want to explore how things work or who thrive through experiential learning. From at-home chemistry experiments to creative problem-solving, our expert educators make learning exciting and engaging.

Music Lessons

Our summer music instruction supports students in learning or refining their skills on instruments like piano, guitar, drums, and more. Lessons are tailored to each student’s level and interests, making music both fun and rewarding. All ages and skill levels are welcome– from beginners to advanced musicians.

Art Instruction

Creativity takes center stage in our personalized art lessons. Whether your child loves painting, drawing, or working with mixed media, our art instructors help students grow their artistic skills, explore new styles, and express themselves creatively. Art instruction is also open to students of all ages and skill levels, because there’s no wrong time to learn something new or start a new hobby!

Flexible Scheduling That Fits Your Family

We know summer calendars can be packed with sports, camps, and vacations. That’s why all our sessions are flexible and customizable, and offered both in-person and online. We’ll help you schedule lessons to work around your summer plans while still reaching your goals.

Ready to Make the Most of Summer?

Don’t wait until the back-to-school rush! Contact Hodis Learning & Music today to learn more about our summer offerings and reserve your spot. Call us at (626) 227-1149 or submit a form on our website and an HLM representative will reach out to you within 24 hours.

 

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Whether you’re retaking a class, trying to get ahead, or looking to learn something new over the summer, Hodis Learning & Music has educators to meet your needs and make learning a blast!

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The Role of Tutors Beyond Academic Support

Tutoring is often viewed as a means to improve academic performance. But the impact of tutoring goes far beyond grades. A great tutor can help a student build confidence, develop motivation, and cultivate skills that will benefit them well beyond the classroom. Tutors play a crucial role in shaping capable, independent learners. Here are some ways tutors can help students in ways that go beyond the grade.

Building Confidence

Many students struggle with self-doubt, especially when facing academic challenges. A tutor’s ability to provide individualized attention can help students develop confidence in their abilities. A good tutor offers encouragement and constructive feedback. They also design lessons that play to a student’s strengths and interests in order to build confidence.

Encouraging Motivation and a Positive Attitude Toward Learning

A lack of motivation is a common challenge for students, often stemming from frustration or disinterest. Tutors can ignite enthusiasm for learning by making subjects engaging and relevant. They can help students set achievable goals and celebrate progress, relate lessons to real-world situations, and use interactive methods to make learning exciting.

Fostering a Growth Mindset

Resilient students can overcome setbacks and work through mistakes. They know they are capable of accomplishing their goals. This resilience doesn’t always come naturally, but tutors can help cultivate this growth mindset. Tutors create a safe environment for students to try and fail, and ultimately learn from their mistakes. This process also allows students to see that mistakes are a natural part of the learning process. A good tutor praises effort and persistence, not just the final result.

Instilling Lifelong Learning Habits

Education does not end with school. Developing curiosity, self-discipline, and a continuous desire to learn can help a student be successful in all areas of life. Tutors can introduce students to different learning resources, like books, online courses and educational videos. Tutors can also help students with self-reflection and goal setting, which is an important part of achievement and lifelong learning. Students can also learn time management and organizational skills from tutors, which will serve them well beyond the classroom.

Final Thoughts

A tutor’s role extends beyond improving academic performance; they have the power to shape students into confident, motivated, and lifelong learners. Investing in tutoring is not just about better grades, it’s about empowering students to reach their full potential in every aspect of life.

At Hodis Learning & Music, we believe that the most effective way to help students is by thoroughly understanding their needs and abilities, and tailoring our services to meet them where they are. Our educators teach with kindness, patience, and positive motivation. We always strive to make learning fun and enjoyable. If you’re interested in starting tutoring, give us a call or submit a form on our website.

The Importance of Writing Beyond Academic Settings

When students think of writing, it’s often in the context of academic work, like essays, reports, and research papers. However, even in this digital age, the ability to write well is a valuable skill. It’s a powerful form of personal expression and can impact professional success. Below, we’ve outlined some key reasons why writing is essential and how students can benefit from it, even beyond the classroom.

  1. Enhance Communication Skills

Clear and effective writing is fundamental for communication. Drafting emails, composing social media posts, or writing business proposals are all professional activities that require the ability to articulate thoughts and objectives well.

  1. Boost Creativity and Self-Expression

Writing is a powerful tool for self-expression. It allows you to explore thoughts, emotions, and ideas. Short stories, poems, and personal essays are fantastic ways to foster creativity and express feelings and ideas.

  1. Support Career Readiness

Strong writing skills are essential in almost every profession. From crafting resumes and cover letters to creating reports and presentations, the ability to write well can significantly impact career success in a variety of industries and throughout your career.

  1. Improve Critical Thinking and Problem-Solving

Writing can help you as a student organize your thoughts, analyze information, and construct logical arguments. These skills are valuable beyond academics and can help you with decision-making and problem-solving in everyday life.

  1. Build a Personal and Professional Brand

In today’s digital age, writing plays a key role in personal branding. Whether maintaining a blog, engaging on social media, or creating a portfolio, writing can help define your brand and make it stand out in a crowded digital space.

To Sum It All Up

Writing is a lifelong skill that will help students long after they finish school. Academic tutoring can help students develop this important skill. From English essays to biology lab reports, we have expert educators who can help you create standout written assignments. Additionally, our tutors can help students with other writing projects like college application essays, student newspaper articles, and even personal poetry. Call or email us today to get started!

STEM Education and Careers: Science

Science is all around us, from the way plants grow to the technology that powers our smartphones. It shapes the world we live in, and understanding it is essential, whether or not you plan to become a scientist. In this first post of our STEM blog series, we’ll explore why science matters, how students can thrive in their science courses, and what exciting careers the future of science holds.

Why Is a Career in Science Important?

Science is more than just a school subject—it’s a way of thinking. Studying science encourages curiosity, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills that are valuable in any career. Whether you go into business, healthcare, technology, or public policy, a foundation in science helps you make informed decisions and understand the world through evidence and analysis.

For students considering a career in science, the impact is even greater. Scientists play a key role in solving global challenges, from climate change and disease prevention to space exploration and food security. A career in science allows students to contribute meaningfully to society while working in dynamic, innovative environments.

How Can Students Be Successful in Their Science Courses?

Success in science courses starts with curiosity and consistency. Here are a few tips:

  • Ask questions. Science is driven by inquiry, so be sure to explore the “why” behind concepts.
  • Stay organized. Keep track of notes, labs, and study guides to reinforce learning.
  • Practice regularly. Reviewing material weekly and solving practice problems boosts understanding and retention.
  • Get support. Working with a tutor or study group can help break down complex topics and build confidence.

How Can Students Prepare Early for a Career in Science?

Preparation starts with exposure and exploration. Middle and high school students can:

  • Take a variety of science classes like biology, chemistry, and physics.
  • Participate in science fairs, clubs, or summer research programs.
  • Stay current with scientific news and breakthroughs.
  • Volunteer or intern in science-related environments, such as labs or hospitals.

Advanced placement (AP) or International Baccalaureate (IB) science courses can also provide a strong academic foundation and prepare students for college-level expectations.

What Science Careers Should Students Consider?

Science offers a wide range of career paths to suit different interests:

  • Environmental Scientist – tackle climate issues and protect natural resources.
  • Biomedical Researcher – develop treatments and advance medical knowledge.
  • Data Scientist – apply scientific methods to interpret complex data across industries.
  • Forensic Scientist – help solve crimes through lab analysis.
  • Marine Biologist, Chemist, Physicist, Geneticist – and many more!

Fields like biotechnology, climate science, renewable energy, and public health are showing strong demand. Careers that blend science with technology, such as bioinformatics or AI in medical research, are also expanding rapidly.

Conclusion

Science education opens doors, not just to careers in labs or hospitals, but to a better understanding of the world and how to improve it. For students with curiosity and drive, a future in science is full of opportunity!

If your student could use extra support or wants to get ahead in science, consider tutoring with Hodis Learning & Music. Call or email us to learn more or sign up!

 

 

 

STEM Education and Careers: Engineering

Engineering is where science meets creativity. Engineers use math and scientific principles to design, build, and improve the systems and structures that power our world—from bridges and buildings to clean energy and biomedical devices. In this third post in our STEM series, we’ll focus on engineering: why it matters, how to start preparing early, and which engineering careers are most in demand.

 

Why Is a Career in Engineering Important?

Engineering careers are at the heart of innovation. Engineers solve real-world problems, improve everyday life, and help build a more sustainable and efficient future. Whether designing earthquake-resistant buildings, developing clean water systems, or building the next generation of electric vehicles, engineers are responsible for turning ideas into reality.

 

Even students who don’t plan to become engineers benefit from engineering-based thinking. It encourages logical reasoning, creativity, and collaboration, which are skills that apply across countless careers.

 

Students interested in both problem-solving and the practical application of science and math should strongly consider engineering as a career path.

 

How Can Students Be Successful in Engineering-Related Courses?

Engineering blends multiple subjects, and success comes from strengthening those core skills:

 

  • Focus on math and science. Algebra, geometry, physics, and chemistry are essential building blocks.
  • Practice technical writing and communication. Engineers must explain their ideas clearly to both technical and non-technical audiences.
  • Work on real-world projects. Whether it’s designing a model bridge or creating a prototype, hands-on experience builds skills and confidence.
  • Join engineering-related activities. Robotics clubs, science fairs, or STEM competitions encourage teamwork and practical problem-solving.

 

How Can Students Prepare Early for a Career in Engineering?

Starting early helps students build a strong foundation. Here are some things they can do to prepare:

 

  • Take advanced math and science classes, especially physics and calculus.
  • Join STEM clubs or engineering organizations like FIRST Robotics or Project Lead The Way.
  • Attend summer engineering camps or workshops.
  • Explore different branches of engineering (civil, mechanical, electrical, chemical, etc.) to discover what they’re interested in.
  • Students can also benefit from learning basic design software or programming languages, which are often used in engineering roles.

 

What Engineering Careers Should Students Consider?

Engineering offers a wide variety of specializations to suit different passions:

 

  • Civil Engineer: Design roads, bridges, and public infrastructure.
  • Mechanical Engineer: Work with machines and mechanical systems.
  • Electrical Engineer: Develop electronics, power systems, and circuitry.
  • Chemical Engineer: Create products from chemicals, such as fuels, plastics, and pharmaceuticals.
  • Environmental Engineer: Solve sustainability and pollution-related challenges.
  • Biomedical Engineer: Combine engineering with healthcare to improve medical devices and treatments.

 

In Conclusion

Engineering careers are creative, impactful, and always evolving. For students who love solving problems and making things work better, engineering offers a world of opportunity.

 

Ready to support your student’s journey into engineering? Hodis Learning & Music can help build the math and science skills they need. Call or email us today to learn more or sign up!